What’s the best way to get over someone you love?

Last Updated: 03.07.2025 02:12

What’s the best way to get over someone you love?

Focus on other things, and people, stay busy, stay lively, work, make goals, have hobbies, have friends and relax.

Because they aren’t what they showed themselves to be?

Now, while it may not be just a ‘she’ it might also be a ‘he’. What’s more important to know, is that, you can’t exactly delete someone from your head. Infact forcing.

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Or are you just jealous and he/she hurt your ego by rejecting you?

Although if you're just a stubborn egoistic obsessed insecure immature teenager, grow up. Understand that you just feel that you can shift the orbit of the universe if you get your dream girl, BUT YOU CAN'T.

Or because you had created a random perfect image of them and they just broke your delusion?

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Because only you LOVED?

Because you were just unlucky in love?

True love, if one sided, does hurt and we want to forget or get over people, just keep going on with life, keep living and you'll get over it.

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If you do remember them occasionally and feel like crying, don't resist, cry, it'll gradually reduce on its own.

If you relate to all the first cases you need to, above all, accept, that they are not gonna either stay with you, and nor are they ginna get away from your past.

You want to forget him/her completely. But ever thought why? And what do you mean by getting over?

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Because the one you cared for doesn’t care for you?

Or because it hurts because they are with someone else?

Because you are in sorrow without them?

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I love getting tired of loving that someone though…

You need to start treating people like people, not achievements.

Because it hurts that they are not with you?

Are you able to lie, even though you have Aspergers?

Or you just over-cared expecting the same in return but are now disappointed?

You're an obsessed/insecure/desperate simp/immature, depending on actions you did.

It's as harmful and futile to try to force forget, as much as it is to try to force get someone.

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If you're the type of all second cases, then, acceptance is still a must but,

Or because they’re happy without you.

Stop fawning at others and work more on yourself, understand that getting that one person isn't the only thing.

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Or because she doesn’t love you back?

But do make sure you aren't only lost in their thoughts, cry but only when it’s been too much.

~KSR

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